Tango: The Future of Sex:2012

Also The Etiquette of Oral Sex.

Women: Can you orgasm from intercourse alone?

Facts first: 80 percent of women cannot orgasm from intercourse alone, says Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First. Still, “many women are socially wired to expect to orgasm via penetration,” he says....

“I was never able to get off without manual reinforcement-until I started sleeping with a guy I called ‘four-minute man,’” she laughs. “When
he was on top, I would have an orgasm in four minutes flat.” Lauren got busy trying to figure out why: “He wasn’t someone I was in love with or even totally attracted to,” she says. Her surprising discovery? “I finally determined it was because he had a bit of a Buddha belly. The extra pressure was assisting me in the orgasm!”

In praise of beer gut!

Portrait of an Open Marriage. Lots of comments.

Laughing Porn

"Hey, we're going to make a European porn video with another couple. Are you in?"

"Only if I can enjoy myself and giggle all the way through."

"Ummm... Go for it."

Totally Not Safe For Work. Work can suck, BTW.

Videos

Brandi Belle and her friends are playing around. X-rated. There are a lot, a whole lot, of these short Brandi Belle movies. Just lucky ducky porn.

Me? I am more like this cartoon.

New Erotic Links

FHM's the Kama Sutra. 28 positions all illustrated by women in lingerie.

Blue Blood's Barely Evil. Take the tour of wicked sexy girls.

Erotic PBM. Wild fun erotic party girls.

Had I linked to Fleshbot here before? Erotica covered by Gawker Media.

Another new part of Gawker is i09 which covers sci-fi for adults. Does have a short video from Cherry 2000

Oh wow, I noticed it has one of my favorite online geek girls - Annalee Newitz as the editor. No wonder it is geeky, smart, sexy, SF, and hot.

Saving the best in erotica for last - Viviane's Sex Carnival. A blog of the best in sex and erotica. Many links.

RIP for a porn star

IdiotProgrammer has a long post on Hailey Paige (Maryam Irene Haley) and her death and the ugly exploited life she and most porn stars lead. She was known for her natural breasts which some porn fans criticized.

Newest Sex Toy is a bouncy stool with a hole.

Positions.

Christy Canyon: "Sex without gravity anyone? This thing is awesome!"

Video at Kat Path.

Think of it as a portable $200 sex swing.

Featured on BuzzFeed with more links.

Why do they put their best sex tips

Below a section on double vagina/double anal pentration? Is that different than just double penetration?

The best sex tips are more time, more communication, and catching her at the right time of the month. A nice meal with chocolate doesn't hurt along with a romantic bedroom. After getting married I was surprised how large a role hormones played in female romantic and sexual moods.

“My boyfriend puts me in orbit when he gives me oral sex. It’s not his technique per se, or some quirky aspect of his tongue that has me mesmerized — it’s the way he seems to savor every minute of it.”

Why it works: One of a woman’s greatest fears is that she smells or tastes bad below the belt. Allay that fear, and everything else you do will be golden. “When we know he’s totally into it, that alone takes us to another level of pleasure,” says Paget.

How to do it: Catch her eye in the midst of the action, moan, or simply tell her how much you’re loving what you’re doing.

Want some good sex advice? Want to be the best lover your partner has ever had? Start by communicating with your partner. Find out what he or she likes — and if they’re not sure, experiment and explore, being sure to keep the lines of communication open, finding out what works and what doesn’t. That’s worth more than all the scrunchie tricks and humming tips you’ll find in any magazine — and, even, better, it’s guaranteed to work with every partner you’ll ever have.

Some great Sex Advice, includes Linux Sex Positions and Rabbit vibrators.

Getting down with horny ball players

Ball player confesses masturbation while hungover is all he does on the road to Bubba the Love Sponge.

Then he gets down and arty (video) with a cute naked blonde and some paint brushes.

Links from the People's Republic of Seabrook in exile.