Sunday, December 31, 2006

Westerners may be more promiscuous

The new study, the first global analysis of sexual behavior, says people in western countries have more sexual partners but monogamy is nevertheless dominant across the world.

However multiple partners are more common in rich countries and this is despite developing countries having higher rates of sexually transmitted infections and HIV.

The team also found that teenagers were not having sex earlier, contrary to popular beliefs and there was no universal tread towards earlier sexual intercourse over the past three decades.

Almost everywhere, sexual activity apparently begins for most men and women between 15 and 19 years of age, with men tending to start earlier and most people polled reported only having one sexual partner in the last year.

Those reporting multiple partners were much higher in developed countries, up to a third of under 25s in some areas, whereas only a small percentage in Africa reported the same.

Among the singles, westerners were more sexually active as well.

Two thirds of men and women without a partner in African countries reported they had sex recently, compared to three quarters of those in developed countries which surprised the team as higher rates of STIs were reported in developing countries.

The researchers call for providing sexual health services to unmarried young women, supplying condoms, decriminalizing commercial sex and homosexual sex, and prosecuting the perpetrators of sexual violence.

Monday, December 18, 2006

DOMAI, free holiday bonus page 2006


A large collection of clean nude pictures of beautiful women from the Dirty Old Man Association International.

Many of the other pictures at DOMAI are better and I recommend the newsletter.

Thursday, December 14, 2006

Should you be held liable for writing about your sex life on an internet diary?


A male political aide and lover has filed a lawsuit against the DC intern who detailed him and her other four or five rotating lovers. Her diary brought her fame and fortune and these conservative Republican aides embarassment. Now one lover is saying that her posting her diary that included him in a public space was an invasion of his privacy.

Saturday, December 02, 2006

Animated Porn Makes Moves

"The adult industry is too stale," says Tahl Price, co-founder of Priceless Films NSFW, a 3-D modeling and animation studio based in a quiet gated community just off Mulholland Drive in the Hollywood hills. "Porn really needs to add some spice, to be more creative, more innovative."

For Tahl and his brother Darron, that means having a sense of humor, inviting audience input and remaining flexible enough to adapt to a changing market. But most of all, it means having the balls to experiment even if some of your creations reveal a warped imagination.

Thursday, November 30, 2006

The Porn Myth

The onslaught of porn is responsible for deadening male libido in relation to real women, and leading men to see fewer and fewer women as “porn-worthy.” Far from having to fend off porn-crazed young men, young women are worrying that as mere flesh and blood, they can scarcely get, let alone hold, their attention.

Here is what young women tell me on college campuses when the subject comes up: They can’t compete, and they know it. For how can a real woman—with pores and her own breasts and even sexual needs of her own (let alone with speech that goes beyond “More, more, you big stud!”)—possibly compete with a cybervision of perfection, downloadable and extinguishable at will, who comes, so to speak, utterly submissive and tailored to the consumer’s least specification?

For most of human history, erotic images have been reflections of, or celebrations of, or substitutes for, real naked women. For the first time in human history, the images’ power and allure have supplanted that of real naked women. Today, real naked women are just bad porn.
I don't think that.

Which Model is more appealing?


A stunning size 12 model branded 'too fat' for TV competition | UK The Daily Mail

Saturday, November 18, 2006

The Big Orgasm Games


After you collect and record the sounds of people having orgasms what do you do with them to make money? Make an audio Orgasm game!
For the past year our company has been recording ordinary people having extraordinary orgasms across the world in order to produce these three great games. These are hilarious and spell binding games, which we would like to offer to a few select distributors..

The Big O Games feature screaming, singing, laughing, moaning, groaning, whimpering orgasms. The CD has three separate games on it: Fake Or Real, an orgasm guessing game that challenges you to pick the real from the fake; Name That Nationality, an orgasm guessing game that lets you guess the nationality; and Copy Cat, an imitation game, think of it as extreme Karaoke.

The game comes in a 13.5x13.5x1.5 deep box. Included are dice, pencil, rule book and audio-cd. The games can be played as a stripping game, drinking game or for points.

Proof of G Spot and Clitoral Orgasms


Charts measuring the different muscles involved in orgasms. This data was collected on June 16, 1984, in Portland, Maine, USA. The research subject was an established Sex Therapist residing elsewhere. Over 5 minutes she had a number of orgasms with both types of stimulation.

Friday, November 17, 2006

This is one big fucking bed


Custom beds in Las Vegas has produced a 12 by 10 foot bed for those who want to avoid the wet spot.

Sunday, November 05, 2006

Nude Protests


God Blog has a nice nude protest and links to a site that collects naked protests.

GooTube's Porn Opportunists: The Expanding World of Upload-It-Yourself Smut


What are the equivalents of YouTube and Flickr for porn?

Benjamin Franklin, Advice to a Young Man on the Choice of a Mistress (1745)

....It is the Man and Woman united that make the compleat human Being. Separate, she wants his Force of Body and Strength of Reason; he, her Softness, Sensibility and acute Discernment. Together they are more likely to succeed in the World. A single Man has not nearly the Value he would have in that State of Union. He is an incomplete Animal. He resembles the odd Half of a Pair of Scissars. If you get a prudent healthy Wife, your Industry in your Profession, with her good Economy, will be a Fortune sufficient.

But if you will not take this Counsel, and persist in thinking a Commerce with the Sex inevitable, then I repeat my former Advice, that in all your Amours you should prefer old Women to young ones. You call this a Paradox, and demand my Reasons. They are these:

i. Because as they have more Knowledge of the World and their Minds are better stor'd with Observations, their Conversation is more improving and more lastingly agreable.

2. Because when Women cease to be handsome, they study to be good. To maintain their Influence over Men, they supply the Diminution of Beauty by an Augmentation of Utility. They learn to do a 1000 Services small and great, and are the most tender and useful of all Friends when you are sick. Thus they continue amiable. And hence there is hardly such a thing to be found as an old Woman who is not a good Woman.

3. Because there is no hazard of Children, which irregularly produc'd may be attended with much Inconvenience.

4. Because thro' more Experience, they are more prudent and discreet in conducting an Intrigue to prevent Suspicion. The Commerce with them is therefore safer with regard to your Reputation. And with regard to theirs, if the Affair should happen to be known, considerate People might be rather inclin'd to excuse an old Woman who would kindly take care of a young Man, form his Manners by her good Counsels, and prevent his ruining his Health and Fortune among mercenary Prostitutes...

8thly and Lastly They are so grateful!! ....

Tuesday, October 31, 2006

lazy geisha - » The OhMiBod Vibrator

Coming Together with a stylish MP3 playing vibrator.
The idea behind the OhMiBod is so simple, that it too is insanely great ¹ – it takes the electronic impulses from your iPod® and turns them into vibrations within the shaft, and as you pleasure yourself you’re not only hearing your music, you’re feeling it in the most delightful of ways!

In a partnership with the Apple® iTunes® Store, OhMiBod users can purchase and download playlists created by some of the hottest DJs around! A big part of the OhMiBod website is Club Vibe (http://www.ohmibod.com/clubvibe/), where users discuss music, experiences and ways in which they’ve rocked their own bodies - truly making owning an OhMiBod the key to the doors of this very hip online community.

Tuesday, September 26, 2006

Taste Networking for Better Porn


Regina Lynn looks into if some people can create a Digg for porn.
"Our social content engine is similar to Digg or Reddit, where members can post content and others can rate it. Based on content thresholds, who is doing the rating, karma and reputation, links make it to the homepage," Daniel says.

"But -- and I think this is an extremely important aspect of the project -- we've also incorporated a collaborative filtering element. On other sites, you rate or (don't) rate; we have a degree of rating based on a 7-point Likert scale that adds weight to your like or dislike. We take that intelligence and form 'taste profiles,' which combine to form 'taste networks.' When people in your taste network find content they like, that content gets recommended to you."

The MoSex Index is barely launched, and like any community-based project, its usefulness will depend on the quality and quantity of its membership. So far, the user group has been small, with 70 testers posting links and adding ratings.

Thursday, September 14, 2006

Classic Pose - Water



Best Slash fiction video ever


There is a fan category of fiction called slash. It is romantic and explicit sexual pairings of fan favorites, usually homosexually. It really started with Kirk/Spock and is named after the "/" between the characters. There is an annual fan fiction convention in Houston which features a lot of slash. No, I haven't officially attended but know people who do. There is a criticism that it has turned into a get together of horny old broads. Hmmm, maybe I should check it out.

This video of Kirk and Spock and featuring the music of nine inch nails is the most professionally done I've seen.

Here are some recommendations.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Russian artist makes his erotic works according to fairy tales


Gallery ink drawings by Nikolay Fomin and his view on Russian naked beauty and Russian fairy tales.

Saturday, September 02, 2006

Oh, Bree!

Scene in question runs for about a minute. It features Bree (Marcia Cross) in bed with new love interest Orson (Kyle MacLachlan). After initially resisting his attempts to perform oral sex on her -- "I'm a Republican," she says -- she relents, with explosive results.

Clip has been posted by at least two different YouTube users (or the same user with different screen names). One of the clips contains a note claiming the scene has been cut from the episode, suggesting ABC execs might have had concerns about the content -- perhaps motivating someone connected with the show to post it online.

One person familiar with the situation, however, said the scene is scheduled to air -- but conceded there might be trims due to concerns over the volume of Bree's climactic scene. However, an ABC promo for "DH" -- also posted on YouTube -- is capped by a quick cut showing a clip of just that scene.

Monday, August 28, 2006

Misc amateur naked


The pretty lame and not many Pretty boobies on beach - Rate My Boobies

Much better but only updated about once a month free photos are at the Hush-Hush Australian galleries. The related Internet Goddess post site has people submitting photos to be posted and rated daily.

Babes Daily, which also has some connection to the other sites, updates 10 free samples a week.

All of these have paid versions but none is quite as good as Dirty Old Man Association International, either free or paid. Check out the weekly newsletters like this one.

Thursday, August 24, 2006

We're practical lesbians


Sensual Cookbook Recommendation

Fork Me, Spoon Me: the sensual cookbook by Amy Reiley

Sister-in-law Amy sends an email to me recommending this and mango meatloaf. Well, I agree that mangoes are one of the most sensual foods and that meatloaf is a comfort food but I hadn't thought of combining them.

This Salon.com article on Sexual Healing mentions using a mango to teach how to kiss. I can't find a mention of practicing going down on a juicy mango but suggestions of using mango pulp or juice in sex play are common.

Monday, August 21, 2006

Flesh Gordon (1972?/74?)


Flesh Gordon - The Bad Movie Report
Try to use these as yardsticks when you consider whether Flesh Gordon is worth your viewing time: First, think of it as Blazing Saddles with breasts; the political correctness quotient is more or less equal. Second, consider your tolerance to bad acting and slipshod camerawork (probably fairly high, if you're here); Third, ask yourself if a puppet going "MMYY.....AAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSSS!" is really funny to you.
I don't know if the following is true:
This is the movie that made the motion picture academy cancal the Oscar for special effects the year it was made. It was only one of three movies that had special effects that year. The other two were the Posiedon Adventure and Soilant[inc] Green. This has way better effects. Rather than give Flesh Gordon the Oscar, as they should have, they cancelled the catagory. Cheap move.
It is felt that the collectors unrated version with 10 minutes restored is still missing the hardest X action.

IMDB - Has an explanation for the lack of hard-core action in the unrated version.
For years, all of the standard sources reported that this film was edited from a hard-core "porno". However, when the "original, uncensored version" was released on video in the late 1990s, it proved to be only slightly more explicit than any previously released cut.

Hardcore sequences were seized by police in a raid. The director was forced to view the film in the judge's chambers and all hardcore material was removed.


Wikipedia - Flesh Gordon

Flesh Gordon 2 - Flesh Gordon Meets the Cosmic Cheerleaders (1989? 1993?)

...the most ludicrous, tasteless, and juvenile production since "Pink Flamingos."

IMDB - Flesh Gordon 2

First movies where I find contradictory information about dates.

Sunday, August 20, 2006

Saturday, August 19, 2006

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Has Anyone Seen My Underwear?


Youth Ahead, Has Anyone Seen My Underwear LYRICS

Chobits Short AMV - Has Anyone Seen My Underwear

Information on the animated music video and a download if desired.

Here is something more recent -

National Underwear Day in New York!

David Allen Coe - Itty Bitty Titties lyrics


Just heard this so I thought I would put up a link to the lyrics.
Now itty bitty titties fit right in your mouth, you don't have to worry bout the sides falling out they got itty bitty nipples just the size of nickels, itty bitty titties what I'm talking about.

Yeah itty bitty titties.
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
Itty bitty titties
I love itty bitty titties

Who else loves them itty bitty titties in here?

Now itty bitty titties don't need no brassiere cause they stick straight out in the atmosphere and when you get old they won't fall off your chest itty bitty titties are the very best....

Monday, August 14, 2006

T.M.I.: One small hop for mankind


VW teamed up with Playboy to create a half-naked Rabbit sandwich.

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Zooass Fun & Games - Beboobled


Like bejeweled but with boobies. Get 3 or more breasts in a row and they pop. The more pops the closer the model comes to lifting her blouse. Pretty silly and mindless, two levels free without signing up.

Sunday, August 06, 2006

Details: Orgasm or Excellent Marinara?

Men.Style.Com has a photo slideshow that asks you to guess if people are having an orgasm or our they on the Food Network?

Who Do You Do?


A group of people based on a cocktail party discussion have started marketing Kinsey T-Shirts. The shirts come pre-marked with the Kinsey 6 point scale of hetro to homo sexuality and are meant for you to decorate or mark indicating your status. For those of you in the dark, so to speak, 0 - is exclusively heterosexual and 6 - is exclusively homosexual. In some neighborhoods especially this could be quite useful. My gaydar is terrible, I never think about it.

Stripping back to bare facts and naked truths about neo-nudism in Japan


Leave it to Japan to be promote the nudist lifestyle as enhancing productivity.
Yasuyo works from home as an IT consultant, going out only when she has to give a presentation or attend a meeting. She punctuates her work with some vacuuming, cleaning and preparing meals. It's a life like any other woman, except as AERA (8/7) notes, Yasuyo does everything in the nude.

Yasuyo is one of Japan's growing throng of neo-nudists, or newdists, if you will. The nudist boom is being buffered by more celebrities revealing they spend much of their private lives in their birthday suits, the emergence of Ekoda-chan, a popular manga character whose entire family goes naked to save on energy costs, and the mixi SNS, which has over 1,000 members of its "naked families" group.

"I take off my panties and strip fully nude, which unconsciously seems to bring me closer to what I'm really feeling, which in turn makes me feel like I'm going to come up with productive thoughts," Yasuyo tells AERA.

Earlier this year, a Californian IT company conducted a worldwide survey, finding that about 10 percent of men and women who worked from home did so while naked. And Japanese nudists are catching on, like Satoshi, who runs an IT company.

"I'm more creative when I'm naked," he says. "When work is really pressuring me, I head out naked onto my verandah and gaze out into the distance while I think. Nakedness gives you a liberating feeling you couldn't possibly expect to find in a corporate atmosphere and I think there have been many occasions when it has directed me toward arriving at a decent business plan."

Suburban Guerrilla » Rub-A-Thon

Susie Madrak had some correspondence about the coming British program on Masturbate-a-thons. I don't think we will see that on PBS anytime real soon. Of course, our GOP is also trying to get the FCC to crack down on our current cable improper programs as well.

Friday, August 04, 2006

Celebs exposed!


We’d Rather Bare Skin Than Wear skin .

Pamela Anderson and some other PETA activist supermodels topless in a London window.

Review of "Home Party Fantasies: Dee's House" - Sex~Kitten.net


A hot female fantasy hard core sex tale.

Is it vacation time yet?


Her name is Armida, probably not really but that is what it says.

That is part of Fem Joy.

The link was from Hoot Island Pictures.

Silly sex for silly people.

Thursday, August 03, 2006

99 Erotic Notions: Free Erotic Story Collection


It turns out I know the author through emails in a political context. This is still a work in progress but enjoy the stories that are posted and sign-up to be notified as more are added.

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Outer-space sex carries complications - Space News - MSNBC.com


Sex without gravity more difficult than most imagine.

The Sexual Fairy Tales of Tex Avery


The link above is to a history of Tex Avery animation. Red and Wolf
It is not a complete history as wikipedia goes into more detail on the different versions of Red Hot Riding Hood and the censorship problems.

"Red" became a famous character appearing in a number of animated shorts. Little Rural Red Riding Hood is an interesting follow-up to the original. Boomerang and Cartoon Network occasionally run the TV versions of these.

Monday, July 31, 2006

California radio station changes format from God to Porn

KFYE-FM hasn't budged from the Fresno-area dial, but it's about as far as you can get from the Christian music, sermons and Bible stories it was broadcasting until about a week ago.

Now it calls itself "Porn Radio" — "all sex radio, all the time," with a suggestion that people under 21 not listen.

Songs with little in common except suggestive titles and lyrics fill the playlist, including "Why Don't We Do It in the Road" by The Beatles, "Sexual Healing" by Marvin Gaye and "Nasty" by Janet Jackson. Tamer songs are heated up by adding recorded moans and groans.

The change, made after the station was sold this month, was met with several non-sexual groans from some residents.

"It would appear this is another of those promotions that are simply designed to create controversy," longtime Fresno radio personality Ed Beckman told The Fresno Bee. "This format belongs on Sirius or XM, not on over-the-air."

Monday, July 24, 2006

A history of sex in cinema


A History of SEXUAL or EROTIC FILMS from filmsite.

It is believed that sexually aggressive women in a number of films brought about the Hayes Code instituted in 1934 which stifled Hollywood for years. In the 50's Hollywood began leaving the Code. This was followed by the more swinging 60's and finally the freedom 70's. Many conservatives today blame all of America's problems on what they call hippies and the freedom attitudes of the late 60's and early 70's.

The late 60's and early 70's were the first public showings of porn films. In 1974 was the first soft-core Emmanuelle film. In the 80's home VCR's sounded the death knell for serious x-rated films but a proliferation of non-studio productions expanded sex in art house and independent films. The conservative backlash first created the revised film ratings board from the earlier Hayes created board and then slowly created stricter interpretations of film ratings. (Others disagree and say there has been ratings creep. It seems language is more permitted but nudity is more restricted.) The NC-17 rating, created to have a mainstream studio X category, was originally No Children under 17 admitted. It is now No One 17 or under admitted. Erotic scenes in the 90's and the breaking of boundaries by art films.

The Greatest and Most Influential Erotic / Sexual Films and Scenes - Intro. This is an illustrated history of sex in film.

The History of Sex scenes in film, the earliest, - the latest. "Some of the most significant milestones, and most influential and memorable sexual/erotic scenes and films on the big screen through cinematic history. Most of these films, with portrayals of sex and/or nudity, were considered quite erotic, groundbreaking, unique and/or controversial at the time." Most of the recent films mentioned here keep the cable movie channels in business. More on what happened to the American porn film business.
"The market for adult films started slipping around 1982," Chuck Vincent told the 3/9/88 Variety. "In the past three years it's dried up. Five years ago (1983), the video companies such as VCA and Caballero would typically advance $40-60,000 for the video rights to a theatrical porn film. Then two years ago (1986) they stopped making offers - they decided they could do four shot-on-video programs themselves for the cost of video right to a single theatrical film. These programs are shot in a single day, with no theatrical value."

Screenwriter Rich Marx earned thousands of dollars from his X-rated scripts including Taboo but after the video revolution he found himself out of work. He went mainstream. Rich told Variety that "the fundamental difference between now and several years ago is that back then we wanted to make a real picture - which people would enjoy and had possibilities of attracting the crossover, mainstream audience. The best shot we had at this was Chuck Vincent's Roommates in 1981, which I cowrote.

"The new breed are amateurs who have picked up a video camera. Video had enabled them to bypass film technique and the entire film distribution business, so they can create a direct-marketing mail-order business to store and the public, even creating warehouses in their own homes." - a tranquil eye.
More on the history of porn - there were no legal public pornographic movies in the 60's although 8-mm stag films started to appear when home film projectors became popular in the 50's. Notes on the history of pornography.

Porn in the sense of color high-quality explicit sexual pictures can be considered a Scandinavian invention.
Alberto Ferro aka Lasse Braun traveled around the world from 1962 to 1967 shooting high quality loops and distributing explicit books and magazines. He believed that making quality erotica would allow for the eventual legalization of the product. Ferro inspired a young Danish MP of the Social- Democratic Party to sponsor legislation that decriminalized sexually explicit books and pictures.

Lasse founded Beta Film in Stockholm and began producing hardcore ten minute loops shot in color on Super 8mm. He starred in his first loop, Golden Butterfly, with his girlfriend from Monte Carlo. She dressed up as a Japanese Madame Butterfly and Lasse played a naval officer. Instead of singing, the couple had sex.

Pornography - wikipedia
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Pornography - timeline - rotten.com.

Linda Lovelace, happiest on the porn set or had a gun to her head? You get both sides of the most famous porn star's story in this interesting historical essay by Joe Bob Briggs with Eric Danville making corrections and his interpretations.

Tuesday, July 11, 2006

Porn 'anime' becoming very popular in U.S.


Fan base swells for 'hentai' content, much to cartoon purists' chagrin
The popularity of Japanese animation overseas was again highlighted in Anime Expo 2006 in California earlier this month, but a growing boom in the genre's pornographic segment is raising eyebrows among the world's fans of Pokemon and other less-graphic content.

AN ANIMATION figure doll priced at 73,500 yen is among other provocative character goods at Mandarake's toy shop in Nakano Ward, Tokyo.

Hentai

"The best-selling product overseas now is a pornographic makeover of 'Gundam Seed,' " said Masuzo Furukawa of Mandarake Inc., referring to a popular Japanese animation.

I Did It for Science: the Sex Toy Olympics


Nerve.com has the Rev. Jen Miller conducting an Olympics of Sex Toys.
Though New York lost its bid to host the 2012 Olympic games, New Yorkers can rejoice. I have vowed to keep the Olympic dream alive by presenting an event that doesn't require a billion-dollar stadium, athletic prowess or the approval of a committee: the first-ever Sex Toy Olympics. Honoring the ancient Greek traditions of athletic nudity and phallus veneration, a cavalcade of toys will be rigorously tested on my vag.

Materials:

- Glass dildos (six)
- Miscellaneous dildos (six)
- External vibrators (four)
- Internal vibrators (four)
- Talking vibrator (one)
- Vegetables (three)
- Pjur Basic lube (one bottle)
- Wet flavored lubricant (five-bottle variety pack)
- Horny Goat Weed (two pills)
- Batteries (approximately seventeen)
- Condoms

......

So it's the little mole from Germany that will take the gold, followed by the Swedish Lily in second place and the Japanese Pocket Rocket going home with the bronze.

I never thought I'd write these words, but I am now tired of masturbating. Give me four years, and I might feel differently.
Sounds like my ex-wife.

Monday, July 10, 2006

Why Do All These Homosexuals Keep Sucking My Cock? | The Onion - America's Finest News Source

Look, I'm not a hateful person or anything - I believe we should all live and let live. But lately, I've been having a real problem with these homosexuals. You see, just about wherever I go these days, one of them approaches me and starts sucking my cock.

Take last Sunday, for instance, when I casually struck up a conversation with this guy in the health-club locker room. Nothing fruity, just a couple of fellas talking about their workout routines while enjoying a nice hot shower. The guy looked like a real man's man, too–big biceps, meaty thighs, thick neck. He didn't seem the least bit gay. At least not until he started sucking my cock, that is.

Where does this queer get the nerve to suck my cock? Did I look gay to him? Was I wearing a pink feather boa without realizing it? I don't recall the phrase, "Suck my cock" entering the conversation, and I don't have a sign around my neck that reads, "Please, You Homosexuals, Suck My Cock."

I've got nothing against homosexuals. Let them be free to do their gay thing in peace, I say. But when they start sucking my cock, then I've got a real problem.
Celebrating 10 years of The Onion.

Monday, July 03, 2006

good vibrations blog

This Girl's Life (2003)


Recommended as a female version of Boogie Nights with better acting but a weaker plot.

I notice that a certain maturity seems to
be required to appreciate the film as it presents more than one-dimensional characters in a controversial subject area. Many actions can also be interpreted more than one way.

It is the story of Moon, a veteran porn star who is becoming well known after 5 years of movie and Internet action, and her life which is more than being a porn star.

There are many scenes of the porn industry presented in a matter of fact fashion. Viewers may have different moral or ethical judgments or opinions about character motivations.

James Woods plays Moon's "Pop" suffering from Parkinson's in an excellent portrayal. Other porn stars have guest appearances. Juliette Marquis is excellent and beautiful.

Recommended for mature adult and broad minded viewers.

A theme brought up in the beginning of the movie of the difference between men and women is explored in the later half of the movie as she starts a sexual infidelity investigation service.

The basic question toward the end of the movie is rather she should continue her porn career when a boyfriend and the other career opportunity offer alternatives.

Not recommended - My Big Fat Independent Movie even if you have seen all or most of the Indy films you need to get the parodies.

Sunday, July 02, 2006

The New Sexual Etiquette


What obligations does one have after a one-night stand?

How do you politely determine the level of commitment of a gay couple?

If you start dating someone you met online, at what point should you take down/hide your personal ad?

And other modern questions.

Saturday, July 01, 2006

Lazy geisha: The njoy pure wand.


I post more things from lazy geisha since I put her on my RSS feed at My Yahoo. In addition to reviewing sex toys, other links about other stuff are recommended.

YouTube - Wrong Way 4-Way: Soup of the Day. EP 02


Keep watching as this turns funny. Still not professional quality but a good scene.

The soup of the day series.

Friday, June 30, 2006

Keeping the Faith


I liked the movie when I saw it on cable as a light romantic comedy with three leads who do comedy well. The movie never quite came together but was light fun.

And now I find it has one of the funniest, sexiest cut scenes ever from one of my favorite cute actresses. I have to add the DVD to my wish list.

A review of the film here that discusses the director's vision of the film versus the writer's and the studio's visions which may explain the problems.

Man, 94, addicted to beauties


Huang Chunyi, a 94-year-old from China's Taiwan Province, says looking at photos of beautiful women every day is the secret to his longevity.

Huang started to cut out photos of beauties when he retired 20 years ago.

"Since then, I have collected more than 100,000 photos of beautiful women from newspapers and magazines," Huang said, "I have a look at these photos every day and this has helped to retain my sharp eyes and ears."

Pictures of Chiling Lin, a famous model from Taiwan, and Hollywood actresses Cameron Diaz and Penelope Cruz are among his favorites.

Britney Spears - Naked and Pregnant


Friday, June 23, 2006

Pornography di budding business in Jamaica, man

ON A damp, chilly night at the beginning of the rainy season, a throng of hedonists crowds the stage at a popular nightclub in the Corporate Area to watch live sex onstage.

This is one of several exotic clubs that have mushroomed across the island in recent years. Patrons go to witness the production of pornography. Tonight is one of those nights....

"What can you expect when we are not producing anything, whether it be in the agricultural sector, the manufacturing sector or in education. Even socially, we are disintegrating. There are hardly any opportunities, so this is what our young girls, and some young boys too, get involved in, these anti-social activities."

... It is the "poor, uneducated and miseducated-educated" young girls who are most likely to end up getting involved in the industry, based largely on the fact that women have a higher rate of unemployment than males....

"A just pure hardship an sufferation mi go through. Mi father don't tek care of mi, an mi madda was not the kind a woman who go out an' fen fi har pickney dem. All she do is just stay home and depend on man fi mine har but them neva care 'bout we.

"So, basically, I grew up on my own, and started working from mi about 13. When I was growing up, I didn't have anyone to talk to. As the oldest brother, I always have to go out an' find work an' tek care a di younger one dem, a so my life did set up."

"I was sitting in the audience and she was on the stage dancing, and she asked me to come and have sex wid har up there," he said. "At first, mi did feel 'fraid but mi go up an' do it (had sex) an' a so mi start."

Pleased by what he saw, the club's owner struck up a halting conversation with him and, within several months, Morrison was performing regularly at the Chocolate Nightclub. And, except for a six-year break, he has been earning a living in pornography ever since....

'Matrix', who sells pirated videos in downtown Kingston, says that the industry is growing rapidly: "Fram dem film Yard Grine, a pornographic film, dem jus' start pop up ova di place."

Steve, another downtown vendor, agrees that the industry is growing: "People dem caan get enough, as dem come, dem gaan," he related.

Thursday, June 22, 2006

Anal Sex According to the Word of God

Are you saving yourself for your wedding night? The Devil wants you to fail, thatÂ’s why he puts stumbling blocks in your way. But God wants you to succeed, and thatÂ’s why he has given us an alternative to intercourse before marriage: anal sex. Through anal sex, you can satisfy your bodyÂ’s needs, while you avoid the risk of unwanted pregnancy and still keep yourself pure for marriage.
Oral Sex in Accordance with God's Will
Oral Sex in Christ

In summary, we can say that the Scripture supports and even encourages the act of oral sex between loving heterosexual partners. Moreover, the Bible specifically encourages fellatio to completion (orgasm) with the female partner consuming or swallowing the ejaculate. This prevents spilling seed, which is an affront to the Lord, and also provides spiritual benefit to the receiving partner. Oral sex has the added benefits of preventing unwanted pregnancies and helping couples satisfy their sexual urges while preserving their chastity until marriage. For these reasons, all Christian men and women should feel confident and comfortable including oral sex as part of their sexual life in accordance with GodÂ’s will.
Remember women, swallow, it's God's law.

God's Will and Threesomes
To summarize, we feel a Christian threesome is morally acceptable if it meets these conditions: It must be composed of one man and two women, all of whom recognize and maintain proper sex roles for men and women in and out of the bedroom. All married members of the threesome must consent to the arrangement and have consent from their spouses. And finally, the purpose of the relationship must be that it ultimately strengthens the existing bond between husband and wife and allows all three parties to share and celebrate their love of God together.
There are many more parts of this site - fisting, bondage, Viagra, pornography.... but you get the idea. Someone is a sex hound but is also a freaky fundy.

Sunday, June 18, 2006

New Scientist Tech - Technology - The irresistible rise of cybersex

The irresistible rise of cybersex
CLAD in a PVC mini-dress, fishnet stockings and studded knee-high boots, Cheri Horton leads me through the corridors of her Gothic castle. We stop to chat for a few minutes about the architecture of the building, before she takes me to bed, undresses me, and we have sex.

The encounter took place in the online game Second Life, so the sex was not real, at least not in the physical sense. Within Second Life, people interact via animated 3D characters called avatars, created using software tools provided by the game. Gamers can write programs to give their characters unique hairstyles and outfits, as well as useful objects like boats and aircraft. They can also program their avatars to perform actions such as dancing and swimming. Now some gamers are using these programming tools to give their avatars genitalia and erotic outfits, and to have them engage in animated cybersex.

Friday, June 16, 2006

The World's Oldest Condom Goes On Display


Cross Species Arousal and Jealousy


Stars that work with those lovable dolphins have some sex-crazed moments.

Jessica Alba says that when she was making a remake of Flipper she had to request only female dolphins because the male "horny little b------s" with their "long, long ..." kept poking her.

She was teased by her friends who made dolphin-squawking noise when they talked to her as word spread.

Susan Sarandon also had a jealous female dolphin bit her on the wrist after she spend time stroking the male dolphin in a tank. The experts hustled her out as she could have easily been killed by the jealous female dolphin. The experts believed that the massive female was prepared to lunge at her the same way they can beat off and kill sharks.

Wednesday, June 14, 2006

Poly and amorous gifts


Questions that you can be faced with today. I know a sexy polyamorous couple who were getting married in an outdoor ceremony. The significant other was attending. What would make a good wedding gift? (Assuming I have money.)

Maybe some non-piercing body jewelry - nipple huggers.

There are so many things at this site like the his-and-her sets of the nipple jewelry and maybe the instant breast lifts for her (watch the movie.) I am sure I could find something other than towels or candles here. There is also My Crabby, also with video, at another site which might be fun.

I went with wine and tapes of Big Love which they wanted to see but didn't have HBO. I was broke.

Maybe the breast lifts would have been considered tacky. What do you think?

Monday, June 12, 2006

Waking Up


Tow or three times now I've woken up with this lyric running in my head.

Once upon a time we were falling in love
But now we're only falling apart
dum, dum, dum, dum dum,
A total eclipse of the heart.

Yes, it is misquoted lyrics to total eclipse of the heart. Bonnie Tyler's Song Lyrics

Dreams and what your brain puts in your head the first thing in the morning are important. When I was sleeping with someone I know what was always the first thing in my head.

Turn around bright eyes, indeed.

Do you think there is something sexual going on in the above video?

Of course, there is the shorter Old School Dan Band version.

Off topic, of course, the internet is for porn. Videos from the Avenue Q puppet musical on Broadway.

Wake Up.

Friday, June 02, 2006

Dreamz


I am always tempted to write dreams as dreamz. It seems more fun, more hip, more California, more liberal. The z on the end is even sexier.

This is a more personal entry about my dreams lately.

Several days ago I was very tired. But then I was on a date with my sexy friend and I was kissing and putting my hand around her waist and waiting for a more secluded place to cup her breasts and feel her nipples and feel them get hard. We were outside near a field and she was wearing a flowery yellow sundress.

I said "I love you."

She ran away a little and said "That is only because I am not wearing any underwear. She turned and started running and flipped up her dress in the back to show it was true as I started running after her. She was fun and sexy and had a really cute ass.

... as my alarm which I had miss set (shouldn't that be one word like misspell?) went off and I discovered I had only been asleep for just over an hour.

My dream self is living its own much better romantic life and can't wait for me to drop off to sleep!

I am over at my brother and sister-in-law's around lunch time. It is near Valentine's Day and he isn't having a party that Thursday but is the following day. Somebody else in my family is going to have a boring Valentine's Day party which I have to go to but my brother's party will be the good one. There are about ten people there, mostly women. Mostly beautiful women. Mostly lesbian.

My brother comes home for lunch and discovers I am plugging in extension cords to arrange the stereos and set up party lights. He goes and hugs his wife and is only mildly annoyed I am messing up his living room a day in advance. I look around at all the beautiful women and smile.

I like lesbians because I know everything that is done to them in bed by other women during sex I also like to do. And just before, during or after a woman climaxes I can slip my warm and hard penis into her wet love box. Women like something like my penis to clamp down on during orgasm while being held by someone who loves them. I have been told this. While I am not as pretty as another woman I am friendly and I only slip my penis in women when they appreciate it. While I am thinking this and I am going to open my mouth and expound on this theory I wake.

I didn't say "I wake up" because both of these dreamz have been downers for me. I wake down.

My dream self has a much better life than I do right now. In many ways my life now is similar to but worse than my being back in college when I had little money and before I had a girlfriend. I seem to have duplicated my social life from college with a lot of female friends -- all of whom are involved with someone. That is good if I also had one or more romantic friends. Today is worse than the college years because, through my own fault, I have made no progress in thirty years. No progress on the relationship front and none on the "what do you do" front.

Is there an evolutionary biological component that women don't want a man who only slips his penis in them when they appreciate it? Does biology make them want a man who sticks it in even when they don't want it? Does evolution explain their attraction to bad boys and very successful jerks? Some people think so.

This is related to a future post that will be about my succeeding at a goal I had set for myself of giving an orgasm to my partner every time we had sex for over two years and the mistake that was.

Dreamz should not be passive but active - if your dream self is having a better life than you decide on what to do to change that. What things are you willing to change to have the life of your dreamz? What changes am I willing to make?

Saturday, May 27, 2006

Friday, May 26, 2006

New Beautiful Agony commercial you won't see on TV


If you need to know more about Beautiful Agony they show people naked and having orgasms - naked from the neck up where they are most naked.

Gorean Panther Girl and mind control

Some Colorado Goreans have someone who escaped - or did she?

I had a response from someone in the comments who claims to be the Lee Thompson referred to in the British press. From the response that could be possible. Rather than email a guy who seems to be an unpleasant character (surpise! are you as shocked as I am?) I tracked down some more local Gorean sex slave cult members.

Priestess Of Nothing releases a Gorean Panther Girl Photo.

What is a Panther Girl in Gor?
- Artwork.

Wylde Wendy's experiences with the Colorado Gor Society. A little disturbing reading from the slave mindset. I may have to reread Time Enough For Love and Citizen of the Galaxy, or she should.

Of course, Salon has an article about Goreans - Chain Gang.
A major theme running through the Gor novels, and often echoed in Gor fandom, is that the free women secretly long to be owned by dominant and powerful men. "Slavery, of course, is the surest path by means of which a woman can discover her femininity," the author observes in "Magicians of Gor." "The paradox of the collar is the freedom which a woman experiences in at last finding herself, and becoming herself."

On Gor, only the slave women completely indulge their sexuality; free women are supposed to maintain a chilly dignity. So if a free woman should make the error of behaving with less than Madonna-like circumspection (for example, by flirting too whorishly with a man), she has revealed her fundamental desire to submit to him -- her "instinctive" wish to be mere chattel at the man's mercy -- and thus forfeits her right to remain free. She's usually stripped of her face veils and slapped into chains forthwith.
Consider the people who are attracted to this lifestyle. The dissident Priestess of Nothing left because her master ordered her to be a slave to a woman. Let's see, if you have to obey your strong male master and he orders you to obey a female... must you obey? - "Oh my head hurts, won't some man come tell me what to do?"

I know I am over simplifying a complex situation but sometimes you need to solve a GORdian knot using Alexander's solution.

Silly wabbit. Trix are for kids and slavery is for those who can't handle freedom.
Simplicity and certitude seem to be particularly important needs for many people, especially in a society in the midst of cultural upheaval. A simple organizing principle like biological determinism or theological creationism can offer enormous comfort and sustenance to people struggling with personal dissatisfactions or intimate failures, or who are frustrated by the insignificance they have in the power structure of their society. - Julia Gracen
I'll second that for those slaves who don't believe women. When a man can expect to come home everyday to a beer, a home-cooked meal, his favorite show, a blowjob and gets to beat the women when she backtalks you know the fascist authoritarian male mind-control has worked. Don't you backtalk me now.

Sunday, May 21, 2006

Free sybian movie galleries

The Sybian has been the ultimate sex toy despites its loud noise and awkward shape. There have also been complaints about the intensity of the vibrations if you give the control to an unkowledgable partner.

More on the Sybian
and other fucking machines.

Sybian Manufacturer's website.

US Real Sex Film Debuts at Cannes

The opening sequence prepares audiences for what is to come, with three different sex scenes.

One features a young man performing oral sex on himself in front of a camera, another a young man masturbating as he is whipped by a dominatrix and the third a couple having acrobatic sex in their apartment.

Mitchell succeeds in making the on-screen action less shocking than it sounds, and rather than gasps from the audience at a press screening, there was laughter at the comedy.

"This film was not pornographic," Mitchell told reporters on Saturday. "I don't think anyone got a hard-on watching this film."

Mitchell's previous film was "Hedwig and the Angry Inch", a rights-of-passage film that gained the 43-year-old director a cult following in the United States.
Film Makes Political Statement
US film featuring actors performing real sex is a "call to arms" against President George W. Bush, the director told journalists at the Cannes film festival.

"Shortbus," an explicit, largely improvised arthouse flick that includes a rendition of the American national anthem during a gay sex scene, is a direct provocation, director John Cameron Mitchell admitted.

Friday, May 19, 2006

Police raid science fiction sex cult


The Goreans and offshoots are becoming more popular with the advent of the internet. John Norman's terrible books The Chronicles of Gor about a world on the other side of the sun from Earth where all women are slaves has spawned sex cults with at least 25,000 members.
Lee Thompson, 31, lives at the address that was investigated, and describes himself as a master who trains slaves, and that while they must cook and clean as part of their duties, there is an element of sexual domination.

In an interview with the Northern Echo, Mr Thompson, said: "I have been called sick but I don't think what I do is bad.

"There's no reason for people to be afraid of me. I'd die before I see anyone get hurt."

Mr Thompson, who was once banned from one shop for turning up with a girl on a leash, said that as many as 350 followers regularly meet in pubs and clubs around the North East, in an area from Berwick to York.

Mr Thompson, who has been a follower for 15 years, and says he has enjoyed slave relationships with about eight girls, added: "It works on the system that some women have a desire to serve.
Who is this "John Norman" anyway?

The Houseplants of Gor - parody.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Study: Lesbians' Brains React Differently


Lesbians' brains react differently to sex hormones than those of heterosexual women, new research indicates.
Lesbians' brains reacted somewhat, though not completely, like those of heterosexual men, a team of Swedish researchers said in Tuesday's edition of Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences.

A year ago, the same group reported findings for gay men that showed their brain response to hormones was similar to that of heterosexual women.

In both cases the findings add weight to the idea that homosexuality has a physical basis and is not learned behavior.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

MADTV Shakira parody




Baby I was born so far away so,
I speak English as a se-cond language,
I don't understand a word I say,
There's no word that rhymes with language,
Lucky that I have a smokin' body,
Cause I only sing in jibberish,
Lucky that I am uh such a hottie,
Watch my hips go quiverish,

We-uh-re-uh-bre-uh
We-uh-re-uh-bre-uh
Good news for you,
I'm double jointed, too uh

Whatever, Don't Matter,
I can sing about pancake batter,
I will shake my derriere,
And you won't go nowhere,
Bend over, Come Under,
Come enjoy my thighs of thunder,
I'll just toss my hips and hair,
And you won't go nowhere,

Lucky, that my hips aren't only jerky,
When I shake them they move mountains,
Lucky that these breasts are proud and perky,
And my lips are full and poutin',

Bebabebabababa, Bebabebabababa,
Time to crawl into the mud,
(Shakira crawls into mud, spreading it all over her body like a hog)

Whatever, Don't Matter,
You wouldn't listen if I were fatter,
Lucky that I got a spicy rear,
So you won't go nowhere,
Peek under, turn over,
I make no sense if you are sober,
So I clash my hips and hair,
And you won't go nowhere.
Director: And CUT. That's it, Shakira.
Shakira: I can't stop shaking! Somebody help me!

Monday, April 24, 2006

Another Southern State May Ban Sex Toys

The South Carolina bill, proposed by Republican Rep. Ralph Davenport, would make it a felony to sell devices used primarily for sexual stimulation and allow law enforcement to seize sex toys from raided businesses.

"That would be the most terrible thing in the world," said Ms. Gillespie, an employee the Anderson shop. "That is just flabbergasting to me. We are supposed to be in a free country, and we’re supposed to be adults who can decide what want to do and don’t want to do in the privacy of our own homes."

Ms. Gillespie, 49, said she has worked in the store for nearly 20 years and has seen people from every walk of life, including "every Sunday churchgoers."

"I know of multiple marriages that sex toys have sold because some people need that. The people who are riding us (the adult novelty industry) so hard are probably at home buying it (sex toys and novelties) on the Internet. It’s ridiculous."

Sugar ‘N Spice manager Pat Irons says a proposal to outlaw the sale of sex toys in South Carolina is outrageous.

While Davenport’s proposal is probably aimed at shutting down X-rated adult bookstores, Ms. Irons said, it hurts customers of "couples-oriented" stores such as her West Columbia shop, which sells everything from lingerie to bridal shower novelties to lotions.

At Sugar ‘N Spice, sex toys are displayed in a separate room. Buyers include men and women who "need a little help" because surgery or medical problems are affecting their marriage, Ms. Irons said.

"We’ve been selling these sex toys for 27 years," she said Friday. "Even pastors shop in here. They send couples in here they counsel for marriage problems. It’s probably going to hit people like that harder than people realize."

Other states that ban the sell of sex toys include Alabama, Georgia, Mississippi and Texas, said Mark Lopez, an attorney for the American Civil Liberties Union.

Alabama’s law banning the sale of sex toys has been circulating through the courts since its passage in 1998. U.S. District Judge Lynwood Smith Jr. twice ruled against the law, holding that it violated the constitutional right to privacy, but the state won both times on appeal.

The ACLU got involved in the case, he said, to "keep the government out of the bedroom."
Those Southern men are just scared of the competition. Link from Boing-Boing.

Sunday, April 23, 2006

Do You Need A $500 Vibrator? / Short answer: Of course you do. Longer answer: Wait, a what? Are you serious? Where?


Mike Moreford explores the fancy vibrator market.
I am not making this up. A company called Jimmyjane, based right here in S.F., makes a thin, cigar-shaped platinum vibrator that clocks in at a whopping $470 (also comes in gold and steel), custom engraved and silent and waterproof to 15 feet down because oh my God if there's one thing this world needs, it's more vibe-wielding women who dive into the deep end of the pool and emerge 10 minutes later with a huge grin and a soft glow and a craving for chocolate ice cream and a shot of dark rum.

Saturday, April 22, 2006

A Long, Strange Trip to Orgasm


Regina Lynn gives new sex toys a try.
It was clumsy, undignified, funny and left me sore, but I eventually did climax, mostly by bucking my pelvis on the dildo while holding the JHJ still and keeping the Je Joue in place. I even came rather spectacularly, all things considered; I'm not sure I've ever spent that much time masturbating before in my life.

Well, not alone, anyway.

Ultimately, the Jack Hammer Johnson strikes me as the perfect example of something Je Joue designer Geoff Hollington talked about. He says the vast majority of sex toys reveal a male (mis)conception about female masturbation, and that it was obvious to him that women aren't consulted about most designs. With all the advances in technology in the past 10 years, he wondered why the sex toy market is still saturated by two themes: vibration and penises.

Phallic products seem to reflect a desire, conscious or not, for a man to feel responsible for a woman's sexual pleasure. If a woman chooses a priapic toy over one shaped like a rubber duckie in bondage gear, she validates the importance of the penis and therefore of male influence on her orgasm.

Wired Magazine's Sex Columnist Regina Lynn

Saturday, April 15, 2006

What should the Easter Lemming bring you?


What Women Really Want: Customer Approved Sex Toys for Her.

Men want sex, a blow job is always appreciated.

Here is a short piece on sex tips for women. All women really need to know is that there is nothing sexier than a woman enjoying herself and trying to please both herself and her man. Ten things your man really wants in bed starts with enthusiasm.

Men need a bunny or other animals like those at Morey Studio for Easter.

Some love, affection, kindness, appreciation and desire are always good in my basket.

Who wants to be an amputee?


ABC News reports on people who have limbs amputated, by choice.
Karl said his obsession with losing a limb did not end with his double amputation. But he said he finally lost his desire to also remove his left hand after an intense regime of therapy and anti-depressants.

For a man remarkably at home in his wheelchair, there is a hint of regret. There are places the wheelchair can't take him, like to the beach to feel the sand under his feet.

"It's all those little things, like that," Karl said. "What the hell was I thinking?"
This is on sexual lemming because I find it strangely related to the amputee devotees, people with a sexual fetish about amputees, and even other fetishes.

There is more on how to become an amputee fetishist.

Boxing Helena explores this in a bad movie. How much would you like a man or women in a box? Would it be someone to take care of or someone to wheel out when needed? Sick? What about if it wasn't a person but a machine or animal? Is this sicker or better? The movie concludes with a "What the Hell was I thinking?" cliche denouement.

Last year Playboy had their first amputee centerfold in Jennifer Krum after having the paraplegic Ellen Stohl in April 1995.
"My name is Ellen Stohl, I am a model/actress, who three years ago was injured in a tragic auto accident. At first, I had given up hope of pursuing my career, but after a few months and a lot of learning, I realized a wheelchair should not make a difference. Since that realization, I have been working twice as hard to achieve my career goals not only for myself but also to teach society that being disabled does not make a difference. The reason I choose Playboy for this endeavor is that sexuality is the hardest thing for disabled persons to hold onto. Not to say that they are not capable, but rather that society's emphasis on perfection puts this definitive damper on self-esteem. Well, I believe it is time to show society the real story. Anyone can be sexy; it is a matter of how a person feels about himself or herself, and personally I feel great."
HUSTLER in February 1997 had an article about humping stumps as they called it. Based on Playboy and Hustler are all amputees sexy or just otherwise attractive ones?

I had a class in college with an attractive young woman without legs in a wheelchair. I realized how sexy she was and how exciting it would be to go to bed with her. Alas, she had a boyfriend.

What is the line between an attraction and a fetish?

I am attracted to women with wet hair or with their hair in curlers. Is that a fetish? Soapy suds and showers - fetish or not? Red hair, small breasts, smooth skin? White bikinis? Cute smiles, good hugs? No perfume but shampoo and soap smell? No makeup? Intelligence and creativity? Kindness and a sense of humor? Affectionate and touching and more hugs? Quirky and loyal and open-minded? Willingness to experiment to see what kind of orgasms she likes best? Occasionally wants quick sex without orgasms? Wants some mornings of hours of sex play in bed? I have a strong attraction to skin, looking at it and touching it - a fetish, an attraction, normalcy? What about those who don't want people to look? How out of control does an attraction need to be before it is perverted? I like questions - is that sick? Seeing beyond conventional beauty - is that really a good quality? While I reject many Christian beliefs after studying too much about it, I find I am attracted to some good Christians with what I consider strange beliefs. How twisted is that? I was very attractive to someone who lost her legs who was otherwise attractive - fetish or normal?

Texas Teenage Virgins is a UK documentary about what passes for sex-ed in Lubbock, Texas and how it has affected public health and teenagers. The school district had out-sourced sex education to an Evangelist preacher.
The film explores Lubbock, Texas, deep in the heart of the Bible Belt, where teenagers are expected to take purity pledges, promising to remain virgins until they get married. The documentary asks, how hard is it for these teenagers to resist temptation, and what are the consequences if they don't? And, How does the climate of fear and misinformation impact their lives?

Juxtaposed against this "purity ring" ceremony with Ed Ainsworth motivating youngsters to abstain from sex.

Juxtaposed against this "feel good" ceremony were statistics listing Lubbock as having one of the highest teenage pregnancy and STD rates in the nation. Do any of you find this incongruous?

This is sex education, Texas-style, where the only safe sex taught since 1995 is no sex outside marriage. That is when George W. Bush, who was then governor, signed a law making Texas the third state requiring schools to follow an abstinence-only sex education curriculum.

Now President Bush is promoting abstinence-until-marriage programs nationwide, a shift in health policy that has sparked an emotional debate over how to keep young people healthy. Abstinence-only proponents say that teaching young people about birth control is simply inviting them to have sex; advocates for comprehensive sex education say that withholding detailed information leads to dire medical consequences. Lubbock's situation illustrates the limitations of abstinence-only programs.

In the seven years since their schools began teaching abstinence-only, young people here have been anything but abstinent. Teen pregnancy rates in the state remain above the national average, and Lubbock County consistently has one of the highest rates in the state. In addition, the number of Texas youths with sexually transmitted diseases has risen steadily. - from a Lubbock forum.
Isn't this purity-oath mindset a more unhealthy fetish than most? Isn't this similar to disowning or hacking off parts of your body? Isn't this where this post started?

Sharon of Nothing Matters and What If It Did is not responsible for where her link took me.

Sunday, April 09, 2006

Monday, April 03, 2006

Sex in videogames: It's time to grow up | TG Daily

At a time when we're told by the industry that the average gamers are pushing 30 rather than 13 how is it that a pair of bare naked breasts and the thought of hardcore sex got more people riled up about Grand Theft Auto than the fact that is one of the most reprehensively violent games out there?

Saturday, April 01, 2006

Lucasfilm announces "Adult" Star Wars Novel Line

Today Lucasfilm announced the licensing of a new line of "Adult" Star Wars novels.

"While the movies were still an ongoing project, it was important to portray all aspects of the Star Wars universe as wholesome family entertainment," said Lucasfilm spokesmen Dirk Merdespieler. "However, now that the cycle of films is done, we can finally broaden the Star Wars franchise into marketing niches we'd heretofore avoided, and adult entertainment is at the top of our list."

One of the first new licenses was awarded to longtime Star Wars novel publisher Del Rey Books, who will be putting out a line of Star Wars adult novels. Del Rey announced that the first book in the line would be Slave Girl of Tattoine by Barry Malzberg and Mike Resnick.

Del Rey's publicist indicated that they were willing to look beyond traditional adult themes, and were willing to pay top dollar for works to fill what were previously considered niche markets. As proof, she cited the hiring of Pulitzer Prize winner E. Annie Proulx to pen Brokeback Falcon, a novel which explores the forbidden love between Han Solo and Chewbacca.

"The Star Wars universe is almost 30 years old," said Merdespieler. "It's high time our fans learned there's more to life than comic books and action figures."

Saturday, March 25, 2006

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Many Couples Must Negotiate Terms of 'Brokeback' Marriages - New York Times

Looking at 'Brokeback' Marriages
Helen Fisher, a research anthropologist at Rutgers University, said in an interview that human partnerships are shaped by three independent neurochemical brain-body systems, responsible respectively for sexual attraction, romantic yearning and long-term attachment.

"The three systems are very fickle. They can act together, or they can act separately," Dr. Fisher said. This, she said, helps explain why people can be wildly sexually attracted to those they have no romantic interest in, and romantically drawn to — or permanently attached to — people who hold no sexual interest.

"Once the system is triggered, it's so chemically powerful that you can easily overlook everything about that person that doesn't work for you," Dr. Fisher said. "Even straight people have fallen in love with people they could never make a life with," she said.